. . . pondering the hole you are digging to the septic tank because last night water squirted out of the pipes
. . . digging the hole deeper because you can't find the septic tank cover
. . . taking pictures of the digging man as he gets angry.
Unspoken deal: I cook, bake, clean, do laundry. he does this kind of stuff. Sometimes those gender roles work out in my favour.